
About My Services
I am a relational practitioner working with individuals, couples, families, and leaders. I bring over a decade of clinical training and fifteen-plus years of practice to work that is grounded, direct, and built for people navigating real complexity.
I hold an MA in Counseling Psychology. I spent more than ten years as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in private practice. And then I left that model -- deliberately -- because the work I was doing had outgrown it.

Meet
Gina Palumbo
Relational practitioner working with individuals, couples, families, and leaders navigating complexity with courage.
"Counselor, Coach, Teacher, Helper, Healer, Trusted Ally - I'm not always sure what to call you, but these are some of the words I use to describe what you do.”
For years, I practiced as a psychotherapist. I worked with adults and couples navigating anxiety, relationship distress, identity questions, grief, and stuckness. The clinical frame gave me deep training in attachment patterns, nervous system regulation, family systems, and the internal architecture of how people get in their own way.
But over time, my focus shifted. I became less interested in diagnosis and symptom management and more interested in what happens when someone actually metabolizes their experience rather than managing it. Less interested in pathology and more interested in potential. Less interested in what's wrong and more interested in what's ready to emerge.
The mental health model wasn't built for that conversation. So I left it.
I didn't leave the depth. I left the frame.
What I do now draws on everything I learned as a clinician -- the perceptual precision, the ability to track what's happening beneath the surface of a conversation, the capacity to hold intensity without flinching -- but without the constraints of the medical model. No diagnoses. No insurance billing. No pretending this is about pathology.
This is about maturation. About becoming more internally congruent, not more externally impressive. About doing the work that lets you stop outsourcing your regulation, your approval, and your authority to people and systems that were never meant to carry it.
What I Actually Do in a Session
I listen beneath language.
I track tone shifts, contradictions, the places where words and energy diverge. I notice what tightens, what defends, what collapses, what over-functions. I pay attention to where someone leaves themselves in the conversation and where they are ready to come back.
I name what I see with clarity and care. That naming -- precise, well-timed, and grounded -- is often the intervention. It reorganizes experience in real time.
I am not prescriptive. I do not assign homework. I do not offer affirmations or cheerfully hold you to your action items. I hold complexity without rushing to resolution and intensity without collapsing into it. I intervene precisely, not loudly, when a pattern reveals itself.
What this feels like from the inside: you are in a conversation with someone who is fully tracking what is happening -- not just the content, but the structure underneath it. Sessions are direct, often lively, sometimes confronting, and almost always clarifying.
A Note About Range
I work with couples in rupture, families navigating complex relational healing, individuals confronting loneliness or reinvention, entrepreneurs scaling their vision, leaders navigating power and visibility, and people metabolizing grief, ambition, anxiety, or creative stagnation.
That range might look unfocused from the outside. It is the opposite.
I work with structure, not content categories. The same deep process runs regardless of the presenting surface. Whether someone comes in with a marriage in crisis, a family system that keeps colliding, or a career at a crossroads, I am tracking the same essential patterns: Where are you outsourcing authority? Where are you over-functioning? Where have you stopped metabolizing your experience and started managing it instead?
The depth is the niche. The range is a byproduct of that depth translating across domains.
Who Stays
Many of my clients have been with me for years -- some for over a decade. They came during crisis and stayed because the conversation kept expanding. Not out of dependency, but because the work continued to meet them wherever they were.
I can enter during acute distress and provide deep containment. I can work in focused, short series to recalibrate direction. I can hold long arcs of maturation work. And I can re-engage years later when a new chapter demands a new conversation.
The container adjusts. The precision remains.
The Longer Version
What I Bring
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MA in Counseling Psychology, St. Martin's University
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10+ years as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC), Washington State
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Training in Family Systems, Cognitive-Behavioral, Existential, and Solution-Focused approaches
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15+ years of direct client work across a wide range of human complexity
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A deliberate transition from clinical practice to relational and developmental work

